I mean it! Why?
We are the ones that taught these care takers and society “think tankers” how to function in every way...from reading a book to driving a car. Our bodies may have slowed down a bit, but we didn’t suddenly become oblivious to life swirling around us!
The “older folks are clueless" attitude is reflected by people everywhere...in doctor’s offices, in hospitals, at the electronic gadget stores, pet stores, restaurants, government offices, or anyplace that requires the smallest attention to detail or instruction. And, if the place has the label senior attached then you can bet that it is filled with “do-gooders” who seem to insist on telling us how to dress, what to eat, how to walk, how to talk, and what we should enjoy...on Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday or any day and time of the week!
I realize that a lot of these younger folks are just trying to do their job, or provide a little easier path, for us senior types, but come on stop treating us like three year olds. Maybe we should coin a term “age profiling” to describe it!
I would bet you agree. How could you not? The proof is all around us from the time we open our eyes in the morning until the time that we turn off the news and turn in.
I, for one, am tired of the “know it all”, parental, attitude that I get when I try to order a Big Mac, check on the features of the newest Smartphone, or ask to try out that new $4,000 dollar Martin guitar in the window.
Truly....I know what I want to eat, whether it is good for me or not. I know what I need to stay in touch in our communications addicted society. And, I sure as heck know how to form a G-chord on any guitar!
If I need help then I will ask for it. If I don’t understand then I will ask a question. If I can’t do something I will let you know. I can handle all that.
What I don’t need though is a crayon and note pad to mark down what I need. Trust me senior care givers, senior-phobic workers, and government experts, yes, my hair is gray and my walk is a little slower... but I haven’t regressed to my kindergarten years.
I mean, really? If you “younger than my children, but experts on my age folks” would open your eyes and look at me, then you ought to grasp the fact that I...I am not a child. Don’t treat me, or my fellow 60s Generation friends, like one!